エリート外国人男性との国際婚活って、マニュアルじゃない

よく、エリート外国人男性と国際婚活を始めたての方に聞かれるのは、

「どこで知り合ってるんですか」

「どういう風に交際に持っていくんですか」

「どうやって結婚に持っていくんですか」

いつも出し惜しみせずにすべてをお伝えしていますが、

その後、エリート外国人との国際結婚の知らせが舞い込んだことはまだありません。

 

最初はこれだけ伝えたんだから、

誰でもエリート外国人男性との国際結婚ができちゃって、

私なんてお役御免なのよ~と思っていましたが、

何十人に同じことを伝えているうちに、そうではないあることがわかってきました。

エリート外国人男性との国際婚活はノウハウよりマインドが重要

たとえばですよ、

私は20代から美容を超研究してきて、

エリート外国人男性との国際婚活に活きるように

非常にブラッシュアップをしました。

 

と・こ・ろ・が、

国際結婚直前に顔がマヒとかになって容姿どころじゃなくなったとき、

アメリカ人夫はなんと、

「容姿は大切だけど、容姿で選んだわけじゃないから」と言ったのですよ。

 

いま、毎日アメリカ人夫と過ごしていて思うのは、

「容姿」そのものより、

「容姿を磨く姿勢や努力」が重要だったらしいのです。

 

「マヒって言ったって、ちゃんと治るまで毎日努力しているじゃないか。

太らないようにエクササイズしているし。僕はそういうのは本当にリスペクトするよ」

 

エリート外国人男性って、本当に容姿を褒めません。

でも、容姿をちゃんと綺麗にしていないと怠けものだと思われます。

 

今日はわかりやすく、容姿をたとえに挙げてみましたが、

ほかにもいろいろあるのです。ですから、ノウハウだけを聞いて勘違いしないように

してみましょう。エリート外国人男性との国際婚活はマインドが重要なのです。

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